If you are tired of dating without depth? 

With my (joyfueled) paradigm for modern dating.

 here & NOW


& Juicy Relationship you’ve been dreaming about… 

That deliciously secure 

Are you craving love while also feeling disillusioned by modern dating? 
The apps
The endless options
The overwhelm

Do you desire to grow with someone? 

to create a secure, connected, and juicy relationship?

I’m here to support you to Disrupt Dating to create a clear & magnetic dating strategy!

if you're ready to save your precious time and energy, while enjoying the process of creating partnership - I can help you with that (and so much more)

let's talk about DDM 

A 2-month relationship accelerator for high-achieving, freedom-seeking professionals who are feeling drained, depleted & defeated from dating, to strategize and magnetize a new paradigm for connection to create a foundation for secure and juicy relationships. 


What is The Disrupting Dating Method? 

Dating is a relatively new phenomenon.

 And online dating? Is, the Wild Wild West.

So if you feel you haven’t gotten it “right” quite yet,
how could you?

Apps are not designed to help you create secure relationships, they gamify your head and your heart.

+ Your parents likely didn't give you a masterclass, and would you trust their guidance? 

The paradigm of what we want in relationship is shifting, and so are the structures by which people creating relationship.

I want to help you connect your head, heart, and intuition so you can go where you want to go relationally with more ease… 

And Dating Joy with Jax has you covered. 

Why Modern Dating Sucks?

There is more than 1 way to be in a relationship, in fact, there are millions of expressions 
Often people get stuck in what they’ve seen modeled versus what they really want

Lack of creativity


Very few people had positive role models or education around dating, sex and relationships - yet these are skills foundational to a healthy self and society
It’s much more challenging to create something that you haven’t seen modeled or know what success looks like 

Lack of Solid Role Models


Technology and Globalization have created an “open market”
More options isn’t better, it causes anxiety 

The paradox of choice


I want to guide and mentor you in a way I wish I had. I want to save you time, pain, and energy. 

5+ years ago I left an LTR (long-term relationship) and my successful corporate career at the same time due to emotional and physical burnout. 

I immersed myself in a den of healing, transformational self-development, and conscious dating. Through this holy trinity I developed a deep expertise in the psychology, biology, and embodiment of modern dating.

As I was building my coaching business, I was simultaneously developing and mastering my Disruptive Dating Method - the perfect ménage à trois of Strategy (masculinity), Energetics (femininity), and Soul (divinity).   

It’s a joy to share my soul work, my years of cultivating relational wisdom, all leading to the divine delivery of the Disruptive Dating Method.

I created this method save you time, to help you magnetize, strategize, and upgrade your philosophy, so that you have a blueprint to create more secure and juicy relationships!  

I understand the challenges of being a successful Woman of and approaching modern dating, And I understand different struggles Men are up against. Regardless of your sex and gender, I assure you there are (EASY) ways to navigate these challenges, with aligned support.

Dating can be one of the most healing and expansive chapters in your life. It has been my finest and most fabulous season, let me show you a new more joyfueled way. 

Why Jax?

Here is What I Hear Most Often

i could be growing more in relationship

Reasons Why Modern Dating Creates More Challenge than Deep Connection 

  • Cleared major dating confusion & said goodbye to burnout, allowing you to step into dating in a new dating paradigm.   
  • Solid tools and strategies to create more aligned connections.   
  • A massively upgraded mindset and energy, allowing you to be more authentic, magnetic, and attractive to aligned partners.   
  • A dazzling (and disruptive) dating profile on an energetically aligned app, allowing you to stand out in a saturated dating market   
  • A breakthrough understanding of how your biological patterns have been holding you hostage in recreating the same dating/relationship patterns, AND a method of how to to create a new pattern.  
  • A clear vision (energetic blueprint) of your ideal partnership. How it looks, feels, functions, and the purpose of the relationship you want to create.   

After The Disrupting Dating Method, You Will Have

Your Disruptively Dazzling Profile will attract Eyes, Effort & Eros

I’ll lead you with my Signature Disruptive Dating Method and I support you to cultivate

Uncover your past relationship patterns and beliefs subconsciously holding you back.
Understand generational patterns, and have opportunities to create new aligned pathways.
Develop a secure dating strategy.



Gain clarity on your ideal relationship,
your short and long-term goals
Define your “relationship blueprint”,
the energy and values of the person you want to be with (and who you need to be to meet them).



Turn obstacles into growth gifts,
fueling deep personal growth each step of the way.
Start practicing trust on the journey of non-attachment.


we pause

Learn how to date with intention 
Start to connect with more aligned matches
with more depth and intentionally


*Bonus* Sign Up for Disruptive Dating in January and reiecve access to bi-monthly Group Coaching
  • Bi-monthly community support calls are designed to help you move through current challenges, a place to feel seen, and space to expand what's possible.   
  • These calls are a blend of education, individual coaching in the group container, and embodiment practices. 
  • Magic happens when we gather in this community space
Expansive Support - Voxer Coaching between Session
  • Walkie-Talkie on-the-go access with Jax. A place to seek guidance and support, and celebrate wins in between coaching calls. 
Examples of how to vox?
  • Pre-date pep talk! 
  • Post-date recap?
  • How to respond to a new suitor?
  • Celebrate how you broke a new pattern!

Online dating profile energetics audit,, feedback to create a profile on an energetically aligned app that allows you to stand out in a saturated dating market

Hopework in Between Sessions is designed to support you with:
  • Becoming aware of relational wounds, and understanding how your past is holding you back from creating what you want.
  • Integrating unconscious limiting belief patterns, opening you up to receiving love in a whole new juicy way.
  • Creating clarity with your relationship desires and & re-aligning expectations, allowing you to co-create with love from a place of holy wholeness
  • Understanding your most dominant thought patterns holding you back in successfully creating & navigating relationships.
  • Understanding how your overall Emotional and behavioral Patterns determine whether the relationship is going well or whether it’s not (& tactics on how to “bridge the gap” between the two).
  • Strategies to consciously create a new playbook for your life & relationships  
7 x 1-on1 Coaching Calls with Jax
  1. Clarity on where you’re at and what might be keeping you stuck
  2. Energetic Awareness using your personalized energy assessment results 
  3. Visioning and Dating Strategy here I’ll help you define your relationship blueprint - we’ll go beyond someone's resume and get into how to match based on values and interests. 
  4. Embodied Actions align with the next steps and learn how to date with intention.

The Details of What We’ll Do Together Over The Next 3 Months Within Disruptive Dating

At the center of my work is Joy.  Joy wraps its arms around the entire human experience.  I model and showcase my clients how to learn, unlearn, relearn, integrate, and transition beliefs to support creating a more deeply connected life. 
Even through your biggest challenges,
I will teach you how to harness growth at every opportunity. 

Juicy Joy

Discover the transformative power of my Disruptive Dating Method where we holistically integrate your mind, emotion, body and soul. We aren't just shifting actions, we are shifting how you magnetize and strategize (who and how you attract). This method shifted my relationship paradigm, my clients, and has the potential to redefine yours, aligning your soul and strategy to create more lasting fulfillment.


Drawing from my corporate program creation and personal dating journey, I crafted The Disruptive Dating Method. An asana you will continue to use long after our work is complete. This program is packed with tools that empower you to authentically stand out in today's dating landscape. You receive a powerful and concise resource to support you to create more meaningful connections. Let's embark on this transformative journey together.


At my core, I'm shaped by years of navigating the complexities of life, love, and relationships whether in partnerships or in my solitude. This journey has been my most profound education.

My work is a blend of my formal education, experience, and spiritual exploration,. I'm a continuously learner on topics spanning psychology, masculine and feminine dynamics, dating, relationships, neuroscience, productivity, and sacred sexuality.


What Makes This Method A Stand Out:

Working with Jacqueline is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made and has been the best investment of my life.
I’m more excited, empowered & on purpose in my life than I’ve ever been. She’s helped me create a more beautiful life.
I actually think she’s a God damn Jedi.

Christy Burke 
BACKGROUND: Medical Device Sales 

“It felt like working with Jacqueline was this 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 permission slip to 𝒃𝒆 myself.”


"When I started working with Jax, I was amazed and how powerful and insightful she was. 
She helped me explore things about myself and relationships that I had never explored myself. 
I learned more about myself than I had ever imagined. 
I walked away from our sessions feeling lighter, feeling empowered and feeling excited - things that I had not felt about dating in years."


Jacqueline is a breath of fresh air! Working with her has been so good for my soul and spirit. I've recently made some life and job transitions and am currently in the process of launching my own business. Fears, insecurities, doubt about past choices I've made....all of these emotions are rearing their ugly little heads, sometimes making it difficult to keep moving forward. Jacqueline has a gentle way of encouraging me to really pause and think about my thoughts and the way I've interpreted past situations - helping me to differentiate between the stories my mind has created and what the actual, capital "T" Truths are. She asks probing questions in such a compassionate way that I find myself with many "ahas!" throughout our calls and am reminded of the power of staying true to my path. I always end our sessions with a greater sense of peace.  Jacqueline truly understands the mind, body, soul connection and actually walks the talk - she coaches with great integrity, compassion and authenticity. I continue to discover new ways of perceiving things every time we talk, and am so grateful for the supportive coaching and love I've received from her!

Jacqueline hears me in a way I have never experienced - regardless the context of our conversation - I walk away with a sense of peace and empowerment. She is powerful. 

BACKGROUND: LA Entertainment SVP to Entrepreneur 

Jax has helped me numerous times to quickly clarify what is important and how to immediately let go of what is not. Her compassion and generous heart is nature herself. Jax is incredibly Giving with her Guidance and Support. She brings forth joy and laughter in the toughest of life situations. She is constantly helping me to flip my perceptions on a dime so that my life moves with increased ease and acceptance. Jax embodies the true nature of the Goddesses. Everyone in community benefits from her help to live in a higher vibration. I am so grateful every time I get to work with Jacqueline!

Jacqueline is remarkable coach, guide and intuitive

Michelle Brown 
BACKGROUND: Entrepreneur & Artist

During our sessions I had the freedom to take what had been pressured inside of me (work, family, personal) - and make sense of it. I’ve had several coaches before - yet with Jacqueline something allowed me to go deeper to unravel some stories I’ve been carrying for decades. The way she navigated conversations propelled me into clarity and have helped me step back into my life and my work with more spark and passion.  I’m not sure what kind of magic she’s working with - but her ability to get me out of my brain and into my heart has truly inspired me to live more presently and more fully.  If you want to feel seen, heard, understood, supported, and inspired to shift - work with Jacqueline. 

Working with Jacqueline was a joy. As a busy woman who has always prioritized my career, I found myself looking forward to my weekly calls and recognize they were one of my most important hours of the week where I would always walk away with more clarity, ease, and confidence.

BACKGROUND: Global VP / San Fransisco  

I worked with Jacqueline for a transformational 12 sessions. When we started, I had recently quit a dead-end job and made a decision to take time off to get clear on my core values, my purpose, and what I wanted for the next stage of my career. Jacqueline listened skillfully and asked provocative questions that guided me to my own true answers. She was compassionate while also being tough in just the way I needed a coach to be in order to move myself forward toward real meaning in my life and career. After working with Jacqueline, I landed the job of my dreams. In fact I was for the first time I was in a position where I chose between 2 roles and name my value. The deep work I did with her set me up to seek and then land a big win, and it empowered me to step into leadership in a way that is far beyond what I had thought myself to be capable of.  

She also has a great sense of humor and inspiring joie de vivre:-) Hire her.

Working with her was a wonderful experience. Her kind heart, sharp mind and open spirit were exactly what I needed in a coach.

BACKGROUND: Ivy League Educated / Baby Boomer

That shift of frequency when she walks in the room, secret. That was what I was after. That was the type of woman I wanted to be. When I reached out to Jacqueline, I was heartbroken, straight out of a failed relationship, struggling in my career, uneasy in my own skin and sitting in my own shit, feeling sorry for myself. Why me? I wrote Jacqueline from a place of desperation and was willing to do whatever she asked me to do. I won’t lie to you. Weeding through one’s own crap is hard. Doing the steps is hard. Doing the work is hard. But, the woman I am today, is so utterly grateful.  Jacqueline created the space to put my needs first. She gave me the ability to realize that I could also put myself first, which is helping me become the woman I want to be. She gave me life-altering tools and helps me break down situations to respond in a manner that is aligned with my true self. She is my cheerleader, my coach and a huge influence in my life. She believed in me, when I could barely make it through my day. I am forever grateful. 

Jacqueline is a lifesaver. I reached out to her when I was in search of that secret to life. The secret that gives Jacqueline the glow that radiates in every one of her photos.

BACKGROUND: Millennial FInance & Accounting Dog Mom 

The Quality of your life is determined by the quality of your relationships.

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