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Jax is a corporate global director turned transformational coach,
educator, and speaker.

Jax supports your inner transformation & outer growth. Her philosophy is that JOY is a result of your ability to initiate intimacy within yourself.

She supports you to break patterns,
coaches you to create new outcomes,
& educates you to embody Emotional Fitness. 

Her mission? To support you in mastering your emotions and mindset,
so that you can elevate your life, energy, & relationships.

I empower overwhelmed, ambitious high achievers to embrace self-discovery, prioritize their desires, and create meaningful lives and deeply aligned relationships.

                (a.k.a. Jacqueline Stevens) Certified Life &
Relationship Coach.


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Client Backgrounds 
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Client Backgrounds 
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Client Backgrounds 
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Corporation Wellness programs:

Non Profits:

The quality of your life is determined by your ability to regulate your thoughts,
emotions and nervous system.

You can break free from these cycles and create emotional safety. 
You can design a life and relationships that are not just ordinary, but extraordinary. Picture a life dripping with purpose and pleasure,
one where you feel fully alive and intimately connected.

The good news is…

Our current collective values conformity,
yet conformity is a jailer of your freedom and the enemy of your growth. 

The reality?

Are you tired of defining your life based on society's expectations? 
Are you allowing external factors like work, achievements, friendships, family or status dictate your worth?

You’ve likely been to therapy (yay!), have awareness of some of your patterns, you might know how you’ve been getting in your own way, but you aren't making the progress you want and are ready to try something new. 

Doing “The Work”

You tend to define yourself by how other's perceive you, agreeing to commitments without checking in with your desires first. You apologize often, even if you've done nothing wrong, and you seek approval and validation from others.

AN insecure over committer

You're a people pleaser who chronically put others' needs before your own, even at the expense of your well-being.
You struggle to rest, relax, and prioritize pleasure in your life because it feels like there's no time for yourself (plus isn’t pleasure a sin?).

A People Pleaser

Are you?

You tend to shrug off compliments and find it difficult to celebrate success. Why? You're always seeking more. You cling to checklists and are highly self-critical, and want to to be "the best" at everything you do.

Undervalue Yourself & Your Success

You find it challenging to trust others, lean on people for support, you believe that you must do everything on your own. You tend to focus on wanting thing to be perfect, and because of that you fail to take clear steps, ultimately at the expense of your own happiness.

Lacking Trust & CLARITY

You're fearful to speaking your needs, or may not even in touch with them,. You stuff your emotions and concerns to maintain the appearance of "peace." Even though that's not the feeling you're creating. You Mirror other people, fear being yourself. 

Disconnected from Your Voice & Emotions

In your spare time you love a good self-help book and you frequent podcasts because you love learning. But what are you truly implementing? Information is only useful when it's used. You are craving deeper love and richer more supportive relationships.

Growth-Mindset Focused & Desiring deeper relationships

And you're also...

The good news?
You don't need a savior,
you need to new manual and mentor!

I give you tools to determine your values, and support you in owning your needs. We create a new blueprint, you’ll be empowered to step into your whole self gaining confidence to navigate life, your relationships or dating  elevate your confidence in communicating clearly.

Guide you in ELEVATING your GROWTH

Creating And your expansion. You’ll feel confident, empowered, and aligned to your value and worth. From this place of wholeness, you’ll step into your life and relationships with confidence, trust & greater ease, which finally allows you to create a future by design, not by default.


We will reflecting on your learnings from partnerships, parents, or professions. We assess the past to get clear on the future to create a more aligned life blueprint. It’s time to get in touch with your juicy desires and shed all that does not serve. 

Bring awareness to your biological wiring

I’ll help you get clear on what you truly want in your life and from your intimate relationships. I support you to release what’s been holding you back and build the skills to move your life and relationships forward.

Help you deepen your Clarity & self - understanding

I’m a Certified Life & Relationship Coach
and my mission is to: 

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PURPOSE: You will learn how your shadow energy (anger, jealousy,) is data to discovery your desires, then you gain clarity on what you truly want and value in life. Allowing your passions and purpose to shine and guide you towards a more fulfilling, purpose-driven life.

CONFIDENT COMMUNICATION & CONFLICT RESOLUTION: You will heal your LABS (Leaky Ass Boundary Syndrome). No longer absorbing other people's emotions, learn effective ways to communicate, handle conflicts and challenges with grace and self-assurance.

EMOTIONAL FITNESS & MENTAL MASTERY: You will break free from old patterns, cultivating deeper emotional awareness, acceptance, and resilience. You will learn tools to work through catabolic emotions like anxiety & depression with greater ease. 

DEEPER ALIGNED RELATIONSHIPS: You will experience deeper and more meaningful connections as a result of breaking free from co-dependence. You will learn effective confident communication skills that create stronger bonds and fulfilling inter-dependent relationships.

JUICY JOY: You will learn how harness joy in any moment as you learn to reframe shame and blame, embrace your achievements, celebrate your successes, and learn that failure is part of the process. 

POWER: The a byproduct of creating emotional safety and security? Power! When you say BYE to people-pleasing and learn to focus on yourself, you gain the confidence & sovereignty to set healthy boundaries to honor your needs so that you can share your innate magic with the world.

What will be different in your life once you’ve worked with Jacqueline?

SELF LOVE: As you work into release your shadows and fear you will start to embody self-compassion and unconditional self-love. Unlocking your potential as the empowered King or Queen you are being a magnetic force. 

Working with Jacqueline is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made and has been the best investment of my life.
I’m more excited, empowered & on purpose in my life than I’ve ever been. She’s helped me create a more beautiful life.
I actually think she’s a God damn Jedi.

Christy Burke 
BACKGROUND: Medical Device Sales 

“It felt like working with Jacqueline was this 𝒉𝒖𝒈𝒆 permission slip to 𝒃𝒆 myself.”


"When I started working with Jax, I was amazed and how powerful and insightful she was. 
She helped me explore things about myself and relationships that I had never explored myself. 
I learned more about myself than I had ever imagined. 
I walked away from our sessions feeling lighter, feeling empowered and feeling excited - things that I had not felt about dating in years."


Jacqueline is a breath of fresh air! Working with her has been so good for my soul and spirit. I've recently made some life and job transitions and am currently in the process of launching my own business. Fears, insecurities, doubt about past choices I've made....all of these emotions are rearing their ugly little heads, sometimes making it difficult to keep moving forward. Jacqueline has a gentle way of encouraging me to really pause and think about my thoughts and the way I've interpreted past situations - helping me to differentiate between the stories my mind has created and what the actual, capital "T" Truths are. She asks probing questions in such a compassionate way that I find myself with many "ahas!" throughout our calls and am reminded of the power of staying true to my path. I always end our sessions with a greater sense of peace.  Jacqueline truly understands the mind, body, soul connection and actually walks the talk - she coaches with great integrity, compassion and authenticity. I continue to discover new ways of perceiving things every time we talk, and am so grateful for the supportive coaching and love I've received from her!

Jacqueline hears me in a way I have never experienced - regardless the context of our conversation - I walk away with a sense of peace and empowerment. She is powerful. 

BACKGROUND: LA Entertainment SVP to Entrepreneur 

Jax has helped me numerous times to quickly clarify what is important and how to immediately let go of what is not. Her compassion and generous heart is nature herself. Jax is incredibly Giving with her Guidance and Support. She brings forth joy and laughter in the toughest of life situations. She is constantly helping me to flip my perceptions on a dime so that my life moves with increased ease and acceptance. Jax embodies the true nature of the Goddesses. Everyone in community benefits from her help to live in a higher vibration. I am so grateful every time I get to work with Jacqueline !

Jacqueline is remarkable coach, guide and intuitive

Michelle Brown 
BACKGROUND: Entrepreneur & Artist

During our sessions I had the freedom to take what had been pressured inside of me (work, family, personal) - and make sense of it. I’ve had several coaches before - yet with Jacqueline something allowed me to go deeper to unravel some stories I’ve been carrying for decades. The way she navigated conversations propelled me into clarity and have helped me step back into my life and my work with more spark and passion.  I’m not sure what kind of magic she’s working with - but her ability to get me out of my brain and into my heart has truly inspired me to live more presently and more fully.  If you want to feel seen, heard, understood, supported, and inspired to shift - work with Jacqueline. 

Working with Jacqueline was a joy. As a busy woman who has always prioritized my career, I found myself looking forward to my weekly calls and recognize they were one of my most important hours of the week where I would always walk away with more clarity, ease, and confidence.

BACKGROUND: Global VP / San Fransisco  

I worked with Jacqueline for a transformational 12 sessions. When we started, I had recently quit a dead-end job and made a decision to take time off to get clear on my core values, my purpose, and what I wanted for the next stage of my career. Jacqueline listened skillfully and asked provocative questions that guided me to my own true answers. She was compassionate while also being tough in just the way I needed a coach to be in order to move myself forward toward real meaning in my life and career. After working with Jacqueline, I landed the job of my dreams. In fact I was for the first time I was in a position where I chose between 2 roles and name my value. The deep work I did with her set me up to seek and then land a big win, and it empowered me to step into leadership in a way that is far beyond what I had thought myself to be capable of.  

She also has a great sense of humor and inspiring joie de vivre:-) Hire her.

Working with her was a wonderful experience. Her kind heart, sharp mind and open spirit were exactly what I needed in a coach.

BACKGROUND: Ivy League Educated / Baby Boomer

That shift of frequency when she walks in the room, secret. That was what I was after. That was the type of woman I wanted to be. When I reached out to Jacqueline, I was heartbroken, straight out of a failed relationship, struggling in my career, uneasy in my own skin and sitting in my own shit, feeling sorry for myself. Why me? I wrote Jacqueline from a place of desperation and was willing to do whatever she asked me to do. I won’t lie to you. Weeding through one’s own crap is hard. Doing the steps is hard. Doing the work is hard. But, the woman I am today, is so utterly grateful.  Jacqueline created the space to put my needs first. She gave me the ability to realize that I could also put myself first, which is helping me become the woman I want to be. She gave me life-altering tools and helps me break down situations to respond in a manner that is aligned with my true self. She is my cheerleader, my coach and a huge influence in my life. She believed in me, when I could barely make it through my day. I am forever grateful. 

Jacqueline is a lifesaver. I reached out to her when I was in search of that secret to life. The secret that gives Jacqueline the glow that radiates in every one of her photos.

BACKGROUND: Millennial FInance & Accounting Dog Mom 

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